This is a great column! I love how much boundaries are centered here as absolutely essential to all love relationships. They are overlooked so much, but they have absolutely enabled me to have the love lives that I want.
Well, and you, my love, are the perfect example of the kind of love in my life that might make me deny the necessity of boundaries. Because we both manage them so effortlessly in our relationship so that they almost seem non-existent. But they're NOT, and the fact that we both have them and prioritize them is one of the reasons we have loved each other so hard and for SO LONG.
This is a great column! I love how much boundaries are centered here as absolutely essential to all love relationships. They are overlooked so much, but they have absolutely enabled me to have the love lives that I want.
Well, and you, my love, are the perfect example of the kind of love in my life that might make me deny the necessity of boundaries. Because we both manage them so effortlessly in our relationship so that they almost seem non-existent. But they're NOT, and the fact that we both have them and prioritize them is one of the reasons we have loved each other so hard and for SO LONG.