Feb 7, 2022·edited Feb 7, 2022Liked by Asha Sanaker
Love this! It’s not quite the same thing, but over the last number of years I’ve found immense freedom in not knowing about other people, as well as not knowing about myself. I always was searching for why something happened or an explanation of what made someone how they were or what caused something painful in my family. When I finally realized that in many cases, I would never know, it was actually joyful. I don’t have to spend time pondering or yearning for answers I can’t have. I can live in comfort with not knowing in a way I never could before.
Soo beautiful, Asha. Practical magic. I so relate to, and was inspired by your creative look at rigorous self-examination. Thankyou
Love this! It’s not quite the same thing, but over the last number of years I’ve found immense freedom in not knowing about other people, as well as not knowing about myself. I always was searching for why something happened or an explanation of what made someone how they were or what caused something painful in my family. When I finally realized that in many cases, I would never know, it was actually joyful. I don’t have to spend time pondering or yearning for answers I can’t have. I can live in comfort with not knowing in a way I never could before.