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sarah e webb's avatar

my (first) therapist always said in order to say a true yes, one must also be able to say a true no… thank you for the reminder 💛

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Armand Beede's avatar

Asha Sanaker: Your words ring very true to a man who has loved Nancy, The-Love-of-My-Life, for 53-years, married 51, with two daughters, and one 16-year-old granddaughter, and, let's not forget, the two cats in my granddaughter's life.

I retired from the Air Force (Reserves, Lt Col, Judge Advocate) and from the Navy (Civil-Service, GS-905-15, Navy Office of the General Counsel), and have met many professional women in my 41 years of service.

I have hear many men, like me, happy in their marriages.

During my many years, from the women, I rarely met a woman happy with men, even in her marriage. One woman -- one in 41 years -- described her husband to me as "The Love of Her Life."

Far more good women were disillusioned through three mad marriages.

I do really have a feeling that long-term relationships with women-loving-women work out far, far better, because of the depth of spiritual union, the depth of love and commitment, the depth of intuitive understanding of another, the depth of sensitivity, and the unsentimental ability to speak truth to each other.

As much as I LOVE my relationship with Nancy, I think households with two women may be the happiest.

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